viernes, 13 de abril de 2012

How to shape your attitude for increased success



Your attitude is going to be a major factor in your success or failure.
Most people take action based primarily on how they feel. Their emotions are what makes them do some things and not do others. Your true feelings about your Xyngular® business are going to have a huge impact on your success. How you feel about a lot of other things also comes into play.

Jim Rohn, one of the network marketing industry's great success coaches, in his weekly free e-zine offered powerful insights into how our attitudes are shaped. The following are a few of his major points.

How you feel about the past

All of us come to this business with our own unique past — failures, successes, relationships, disappointments, and experiences.
You can roll the past up like a newspaper and beat yourself over the head with it saying, "If only I had done this or that, my life would be so much better." You don't want to relive your past like this. Treat your past like a school from which you can learn and become better. All you have to do is study the result and redirect your actions.

 Invest your experience and knowledge in the future. The past has given you an education no one can take from you. If it has been harsh, rejoice today; because, through that experience, you've become better prepared for the future.

How you feel about the future

The power to anticipate and work toward a future is an awesome force unique to the human race. You are understanding this right now because of that amazing ability. You have the ability to take inspiration and a well-designed future and invest the time and energy to make it happen as you see it in your mind's eye. The future holds a priceless treasure for you called "the promise." There is always a price to pay to achieve this promise, but the price appears easier as the promise gets stronger. In other words, if you will make a strong and well-designed future become the greatest pull on your life, the price you have to pay will become increasingly easy to pay. Any time you are struggling or discouraged, get out the promise of your own future to help you become more eager to pay the price today.

On the other hand, if the promise is weak, the price becomes almost impossible to pay. If you can't see much meaning in your daily business habits, if they're not pulling you toward your own well-defined future, the price will become almost too great to bear. Only when you make your future and it's pull on you sufficiently strong, will it carry you through the inevitable adversity you're sure to encounter.

How you feel about others

None of us can succeed alone. We need ideas, inspiration, strength, work, and encouragement from others. We only become truly powerful when ALL of us understand how truly valuable EACH of us is. We also become much more powerful when EACH of us humbly understands how valuable ALL of us are.

How you feel about yourself

Understanding your self-worth is always the first step to accelerated progress. A philosopher once said, "When you see a man as he is, he only becomes worse. But when you see a man as he could be, he becomes what he should be." Look within yourself. What is your potential?

At Xyngular, we believe that the highest view of what you could be is what you should be. If you could be a leader, you should be one. If you have the capacity to help thousands of people reach their optimal health and financial freedom, then you should help them do it. If you know that you and your team can change the health of millions, and you do nothing to move it forward, you are committing a crime by omission.

In the language of his "modern man," the German philosopher Rollo May says this, "I'm just a collection of mirrors, reflecting what everyone else expects of me." How sad, but how true for far too many. Decide not to allow other people's negative or low expectations of you become reality. You have to expect great things from yourself. The following high-impact quote from Jim Rohn sums it up:

"The only limitation placed on our abilities is our inability to easily recognize our unlimited nature. It takes effort to become aware of our staggering and limitless abilities. It takes effort to become enthusiastic over a cause, or an occupation. It takes effort to continue when our results—as well as our friends—tell us to give up trying. It takes effort to feel right about everything that happens—the joy as well as the sorrows of life. It also takes effort to learn to love ourselves above all others, especially when we are so consciously aware of our failures, doubts, and tragedies. It does not, however, take effort to fail. It requires little else than a slowly deteriorating attitude about our present, our future, and about ourselves. 

It is ironic that one of the few things in this life over which we have total control is our own attitudes, and yet most of us live our entire life behaving as though we had no control whatsoever. By our attitude, we decide to read, or not to read. By our attitude, we decide to try or give up. By our attitude, we blame ourselves for our failure, or we foolishly blame others. Our attitude determines whether we love or hate, tell the truth or lie, act or procrastinate, advance or recede, and by our own attitude, we and we alone, actually decide whether to succeed or fail" (Jim Rohn. The Seasons of Life).

ACTION STEPS:
 
1. After reading this article evaluate how you feel about the past, the present and the future and how it relates to your Xyngular business.

2. Jim Rohn's long quote about attitude has turned around a lot of people's attitudes when they've been discouraged. Put it on a poster where you can read it often, and see what affect it will have on your future.

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